A Pleasure Hunt
Courtney "CB" Brown
It can be easy to forget that there’s a whole world right outside, especially when the whole world appears to be right here on my phone. Why go for a walk when I could watch someone else go for a walk in a much more interesting place? They even have a cat hanging out of their backpack, for Christ’s sake!
Despite being a chronic daydreamer, always considering imaginary places, people, and things I could envelope myself in (bit of a noun-ophile), I know there is no “more interesting” place in reality. No matter where I go, it will be my responsibility to find meaning in what I find. I mean, I could put my cat in a backpack if I really wanted to…
If you, too, struggle to click into the right-now, may I suggest an activity? It’s called a “Pleasure Hunt.” It’s like a scavenger hunt, except you let delight lead the way. The purpose is to engage with the little moments of joy that are available to you, and only you, right now.
I followed a list by educator Lena Peak at The Expansive Group, which is shared below. If it’s accessible to you, it’s highly encouraged that you look for these things outside your home and uncover new ways to connect with the world outside your door.
Try your best to find…
- A scent that calms you or excites you
- A sound that calms you or excites you
- A texture or sensation that calms you or excites you
- A beautiful and/or cozy place that you could sit or lay at forever
- An item or scene that includes your favorite color(s)
- Something that reminds you of your favorite quality of yourself
- Something that reminds you of your least favorite quality of yourself. What do you find beautiful or intriguing about this item/experience?
- Something that reminds you of a special person in your life (i.e. friend, family member, coworker, mentor, lover)
- Something that makes you laugh or reminds you of a time when you couldn't control your joy and laughter
- Something that inspires you creatively, sensually, and/or sexually